MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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How to take a good photo1. check the background - fussy or too dark isn't good.2. lighting - try for one overhead solid light and one 3/4 to your front side. This molds the body nicely.3. to get an e ... For detail, click here.
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How to turn off a potential date with a photoThere are many ways to make a fatal mistake with first impressions based on a photo: 1. Blurry image - seeing the person's pic is essential! If someone cannot see you clearly ... For detail, click here.
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Photo advice from a photographerI recommend having more than one or two photos on a dating site. It can show versatility in your personality and express your interests in more of a complete way. As a photogr ... For detail, click here.
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Photo advice to menWomen are just as visual as men. Men, when posting a photo, women are not interested in seeing the fish you caught. They want a clear, close-up picture of you. Wear a shirt un ... For detail, click here.
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Photos that should not be in your profile photo albumWhen posting photos of yourself, do not post pictures of yourself with your children or family. You don't know who is looking at your profile. Photos can be photoshopped, and ... For detail, click here.
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Post current photos only - don't misrepresent yourself!Take a good long look in the mirror (without clothes!) and compare what you see with the photos you submit! Ask your family and friends (and even ex) their HONEST opinion on w ... For detail, click here.
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The first impression: how to make sure it's a good one?Are you making sure that the primary photo you post should portray you in perfect light? It is the first impression that your prospective partners will see and attract.Do the ... For detail, click here.
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The importance of keeping a current pictureI can not stress enough how important having an updated picture is. I strongly recommend that members have a picture at least a year old. Also, I would suggest putting a date ... For detail, click here.
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The power of being open about your appearancePhotographs can tell a lot about a person. If the photos seem old or are too vague, request updated photos. If the images received still do not give you a good idea of what a ... For detail, click here.
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Upload 4-6 photos and keep them classy.You need to post multiple pictures; I'm not saying take up all 26 spots but upload 4-6 pictures. When you post one photo, men sometimes think it's a fake profile, someone stea ... For detail, click here.
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Why aesthetics, content, and curation matter mostAside from looks, image aesthetics (separate topic), content, and curation are the most critical factors when selecting images for your dating profile. Things to consider reg ... For detail, click here.
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Why authentic, real-life photos matterI have discovered on many dating sites that if the photos of a guy are excellent and he's pretty handsome, he may not be a natural person. When the images look like something ... For detail, click here.
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3 Tips to win a positive first impressionProfessional workers and businessmen/women usually have a busy schedule. Sometimes, they may not have time to read through so many details, but your decent, charming, and brig ... For detail, click here.
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Always update and use current photos on dating siteAlways update and use current photos. Post-face shots as well as a shot from a distance. If you have been on here for a while, update photos on a regular basis. If a photo is ... For detail, click here.
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An average photo is better than noneOften I receive contacts from women who have not posted pictures. When I request a photo, here are the most common responses: 1. "I don't have any recent photos." 2. "I don't ... For detail, click here.
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Get more responses by posting photos that truly represent youThe first thing people view while browsing through the site is one's photo. Often, it's the only thing they view. Place photos representing your true self, and others will hop ... For detail, click here.
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Never send dirty picturesIf a man or woman asks you to send Sexy or Naughty pictures before he asks anything about you... Don't. How many other people are they asking this of? This happens to me a lot ... For detail, click here.
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The bathroom is not the new photography studioGentlemen, what is the number one thing a man can do to win a woman over? Be original and make her laugh. Present yourself in the best possible way online by showing us fun-lo ... For detail, click here.
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Upload a smile photoWhen uploading your main picture, choose one that shows you are approachable. It is perfectly fine to look sexy, alluring, and coy. Those are all attractive qualities! However ... For detail, click here.
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Be sure the pictures represent who you really areBe sure you're picking a photo that represents you well. No one wants to see you with other hot chicks (unless they happen to be family, lol), especially with the Hooters wait ... For detail, click here.