MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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Correct angle for taking a great photoI am a pro photographer and one of the biggest mistakes people make is choosing the wrong angle. So here are a few tips: 1. If you have got double chin (full-time or when smi ... For detail, click here.
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3 Photos every profile must haveLike all online daters, I look at photos on profiles that interest me and I have found that even though someone can have several photos, having the wrong kind of photos can be ... For detail, click here.
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4 Types of pictures may make others feel annoying!Here are a few things that I have found to be annoying when seeing someone's picture. 1. Having no picture! - a lot of times you are overlooked because of this. Most people l ... For detail, click here.
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5 Tips to take a good photoMy biggest issue with profiles on dating sites is the pictures people use. What drives me into confusion, is the choices some people make for photos to represent themselves on ... For detail, click here.
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6 Types of profile pictures get the wrong attentionThis is a suggestion of what kind of photos get the wrong attention. 1. Shirtless Photos - it instantly says you are very into yourself and looks are most important (a.k.a. s ... For detail, click here.
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A glamour shot is the kiss of deathLadies: Posting a Glamour Shot or professional photo that requires heavy amounts of makeup is an instant turn-off. Gentlemen: Posting photos of your high school heyday when yo ... For detail, click here.
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Attraction and honesty are big componentsWhen selecting a photo for a dating site such as this, be sure to choose a photo that is honestly representative of what you look like on a daily basis. Nothing can spell disa ... For detail, click here.
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Be who you are on your photosI recently met someone for the first time and I was extremely disappointed. Make sure you ask for recent pictures, that is rule number one. I believe I was looking at photogra ... For detail, click here.
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Casting yourself in the starring role!I have been in the entertainment business for many years, and if there is ONE specific thing that rises to the level of an absolute imperative, it is having good headshots. T ... For detail, click here.
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Don't ask for more photos at the beginningAsking a woman for "more photos" is a dead giveaway that you are only interested in her for her looks. It is considered shallow and rude, especially if she has photos already ... For detail, click here.
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Don't be afraid to shineDon't be afraid to have pictures that show off who you are. I've noticed a lot of women on here fall into the habit of only having close-up pictures of their faces and nothing ... For detail, click here.
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Don't change yourself - but accentuate the qualities you're looking for in a partnerWhen I am looking through photos I tend to look for someone with the same disposition as myself (casual dress, smiling, or maybe a little silly). Try to portray in your photo ... For detail, click here.
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Don't judge as we have asked others not to judge usEveryone who places a picture on this site is going to find the one that is the most flattering. This is not to say that anyone is deceiving but it is a natural instinct ... For detail, click here.
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Don't post photos with attractive women for menI have noticed that a lot of men will post pictures of themselves being hugged, kissed or cuddled by attractive women. From a woman's perspective it makes you look ... For detail, click here.
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Don't post photos with surrounding environmentI've noticed that a lot of people have a tendency to post a picture to their profiles with things such as house numbers or street signs in the background; these are things you ... For detail, click here.
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Don't post pictures of your many recreational vehiclesTo find a quality relationship, avoid posting pictures of your many recreational vehicles (especially if you're not in the picture). Money is a nice plus, but you want a girl ... For detail, click here.
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Don't send dirty pictures to the person you are talking toIt is OK to send pictures of yourself to the person you are talking to, but never send dirty pictures because you never know who that person is until you meet them, and they j ... For detail, click here.
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For men: how to select the best profile photos1. Smile! A smile is welcoming and invites someone in. 2. Include a picture without sunglasses. We want to see your eyes. 3. Have a close-up. Far away photos could be anybod ... For detail, click here.
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Helpful techniques for taking your great face photoMost people do not know that holding a flat white surface underneath one's face will provide additional soft light to bring out one's face more. Either supported on a stand, h ... For detail, click here.
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How to post picturesThere should be a "how to" section forsting pictures on all dating websites. Okay, nearly all - I'm sure some of the swinger websites have an anything-goes atmosphere. I've c ... For detail, click here.