MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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Limit alcohol consumption period: yes, alcohol is fun some timesIf you are dating and accept a date, here are 5 tips: 1. Keep your loved ones in the loop: Let at least two people know where and when you'll be at a location. If you have an ... For detail, click here.
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Don't put off the actual meeting for too longIf and when you are looking for that special someone online, keep in mind that communication breaks down into three sections. 7% of communication is through words, spoken or t ... For detail, click here.
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Save the first time until you're both sober enough to enjoy itJust because she has had a few too many drinks and comes on to you doesn't mean that you should have sex. Forget about it. I've seen many friends ruin a chance with a lovely w ... For detail, click here.
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Subtle techniques to attract attention and interest (offline)It's easy enough to sound like an amazing person over what I call "safety net channels" such as email, texting, phone calls, etc. After all, there is no face-to-face factor an ... For detail, click here.
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6 Questions to ask on a date if you don't know what to talk aboutNothing can be more nerve-wracking than trying to keep up an interesting conversation with someone on your first date. For some people, it is quite easy to initiate a conversa ... For detail, click here.
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7 Tips what not to do on your first dateThere are some things you must not do when you first meet someone in person. These have been collected from personal experiences of mine and my friends: 1. Be on time for the ... For detail, click here.
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Dating do's and don't, in black and white.Don't be late. It's rude to keep anyone waiting, including your date! Be respectful of your date if you smoke. Don't be rude. No matter what type of day you've had, be polite ... For detail, click here.
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Don't let the past taint your futureMany men I have come across in recent months have been bitter due to bad breakups, or the low quality of men they have attracted. Unfortunately, when that good man does cross ... For detail, click here.
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First date don'ts and dos (part ii)Do: Make your partner feel comfortable and relaxed. Keep the conversation flowing and try to find common interests you can both talk about. Pick a suitable place such as ... For detail, click here.
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First date tips for men: keep it casual!Whether it's your first time in a while since you've hit the dating scene or you just haven't had too much success with your first dates, the biggest stressor I want to mentio ... For detail, click here.
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First date tips to help guarantee a successful dateWhen you are finally meeting someone you've been chatting with on the site, usually you are going out on a date. You want the date to be special no matter where you are going ... For detail, click here.
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Frist date don'ts and dos (part I)DO have a positive attitude: I tried to plan a really neat first date something different. So I picked him up, and it was cold out, and the restaurant I was going to take him ... For detail, click here.
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Gentlemen, when setting up your first meeting, please take into account women's unique security concerns.Gentlemen, when setting up your first meeting, please take into account women's unique security concerns. Navigating today's world can be problematic. Ask yourself, when was t ... For detail, click here.
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Have a friend call you at the first dateFirst and foremost, always tell somebody where you are going to be meeting your "date". I always have somebody call me on my cell phone within the first 15-20 minutes of meeti ... For detail, click here.
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Have fun, but be careful!!As human beings, we all want to believe that everyone, deep down, is a good person. But this is not always the case, especially when dealing with people you meet online. I'm ... For detail, click here.
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How to choose physical activities on the first dateCongratulations! You have a match and are ready for a first date. Now you just have to figure out where to go. Sure you can go for a brief coffee date. But why not plan for a ... For detail, click here.
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How to protect yourself on the first dateI know you will be nervous and excited on your first date but keep a straight head. Never meet anyone in a private place. It is much better to make it a group situation for th ... For detail, click here.
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How to win over a woman on the first dateThis advice is truthfully the best one I have. Show up with the best smile that you have, and show how you feel the majority of the time. Do not try to play so cool, act inter ... For detail, click here.
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Keep first date platonicThe first date should be in a populated setting in your comfort zone, and always use your transportation. A coffee shop, restaurant, boardwalk, etc. is a great way to get to k ... For detail, click here.
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Keep it light and stay true to who you areWhile it's important to be true to yourself on a date and be authentic with what you share, it isn't a good idea to share all your problems and issues with someone on the firs ... For detail, click here.