MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)
Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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Handle rejection by cookie theorySo, you’ve got your eye on that profile, huh? Their pictures are stunning, and their words seem like they were written just for you. BINGO! But how do you capture the a ... For detail, click here.
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5 Valuable tips to learn to deal with rejectionRejection is part and parcel of dating. Even the greatest pickup artists in the world will experience several counts of failures. After all, you can't win them all. No one in ... For detail, click here.
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7 Ways to bounce back from rejectionLearning to handle rejection is part and parcel of becoming a more confident individual. Having this attribute will go a long way in increasing your success rates with women a ... For detail, click here.
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Does he really fit me?Rejection is something we all experience at least once in our lives. What we need to understand is that it can actually be a good thing if we change our perspective. Instead o ... For detail, click here.
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Handle rejection gracefully - it's a stepping stone to your soul mateAs a highly successful sales representative, I found it invaluable early in my career (as well as when I was first diagnosed and in current dating scenarios) to accept each re ... For detail, click here.
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Handle rejection with class and graceI don’t know many people who have been in the dating scene without experiencing rejection at some point. Here are a couple of key thoughts: It takes as much nerve to rej ... For detail, click here.
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The perspective that rejection offersThough rejection is undoubtedly difficult to endure, I have come to realize that it provides valuable perspective. You gain insight into the person who rejected you based on ... For detail, click here.
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We all have preferences. When someone is not interested in you, don't take as an insultIt can be hard not to take rejection to heart, whether it happens on a dating site or in person. It’s important to remember that we all have our preferences, which may b ... For detail, click here.
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Don't take it personalThe reality is that in life, you will encounter people who won’t share the same level of interest in you as you do in them—and you know what? That’s okay! O ... For detail, click here.
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It is rejection of the relationship, not youOkay, you’ve made it to the third or fourth date—congratulations! However, here come the lines of rejection: 'There isn’t any chemistry,' 'You’re a gre ... For detail, click here.
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Be prepared for rejectionI’ve found that many people are drawn to appearances. In the past, I’ve met women who saw my picture and never responded to my emails. It can hurt because ... For detail, click here.
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Don't let rejection stop you from seeking loveSome of us out there are successful of winning a potential mate's affections and a couple of dates later, have a successful relationship with that person while some of us ... For detail, click here.
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How to grow a thick skin to rejection online and keep trying!Rejection, especially online, can be painful. When you're online, you chat with many more people in one evening than you would in a social setting, which means rejection occu ... For detail, click here.
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Not everyone will be your match - remain genuine & true to yourself!The key things to remember when meeting or dating someone are chemistry and expectations. You may have hit it off on the first date, maybe even the second, but that doesn&rsqu ... For detail, click here.
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Rejection...Is it good or bad?I know rejection can feel like the end of the world. I’m the first to admit that I’ve taken it hard, but my advice is that rejection can actually be a good thing. ... For detail, click here.
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Some steps to what you do after getting rejectionSo, you’ve been rejected. What now? Do you crawl under a rock and hide? Huddle up with a carton of Ben & Jerry's Chunky Monkey and binge-watch reruns of Girlfriends? ... For detail, click here.
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Stay confident, you will find someoneDon’t be afraid of rejection; it happens to everyone. Always stay confident and think positively. Confidence is key and will help you in the long run. Don’t let th ... For detail, click here.
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No means nextIn the dating game, you have to be able to handle rejection. Like anything else, it follows a law of averages: you need to get the "no's" to eventually get the "yes." So, if ... For detail, click here.
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Take a day off or vent to a friend if that makes you feel betterIt’s okay to be upset and even cry. Allow yourself to release all your emotions and get it out of your system. Take a day off if needed to gather your thoughts. The d ... For detail, click here.
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Be flexible on search requirementsIf someone rejects you, keep trying to meet someone new. Consider changing your age preferences—go for someone younger or much older. You might also try searching with f ... For detail, click here.