I thought I had met my match in February, I posted a picture of us,but it wasn’t meant to be, but I messaged this guy and we have been out and hung out several times; I enjoy his smile, conversation and values. It is so nice that he lives close! Well I am happy I met him! Thank you PS! I’m ready to leave the site for good and keep building with this guy!
Both of our profiles spoke true to our characters, and that really drew us to each other in real life. We didn't sugar coat anything, and we were completely honest upfront, no game playing. We were both looking for the "real thing" and we have had the strongest connection, most compatibility with each other. Its surreal at times. I had no problem with disclosures outside of this website, so that was no issue for me, nor for him. Luckily, we've found someone (each other) that matched our drive, goals, purpose, ambition, family lifestyle, humor, intelligence, and most importantly, heart.
Meeting online and starting off long distance can be a wonderful experience with two committed and genuine people who have a shared vision of love and being together. We are grateful that we did not let distance prevent us from finding the true love of our lives and hope we can encourage others to keep options open as well!
We connected on this site Nov 7, 2017 and our first time meeting in person was 4 weeks later. In the sea of possible connections, one wonders how to find the right match. It can seem overwhelming, particularly if you're not finding anyone nearby and options seem limited. Yet this is a wonderful opportunity to be true to yourself, and hold to those values that are most important to you, and to the dreams that you have for finding your true mate for life. We had both been very specific in our profiles, about ourselves and the type of person we were hoping to meet, including details that we knew might result in fewer responses. Our goal was to find the right match for us, not just anyone. We had each considered limiting our profile to local matches, but are so glad we didn't.
Within our first few lengthy messages, we knew there was a connection, and decided to correspond off-line. There are a few things that helped our relationship develop so quickly over the distance. We agreed to be intentional in communicating and prioritizing the relationship, never going more than a day (usually not even half a day) without seeing one another’s smile and talking (face time) and never more than 3-4 weeks without being together even though we temporarily live two states away. We face timed every day, two or three times a day, and found out what a wonderful way this is to communicate without distractions and really listen, laugh, and become good friends. We find it’s often hard to say goodbye for the night.
Four weeks after our first contact, two states away, we met. Cena picked Tom up at the airport and we went straight to a beautiful restaurant for a real first date! Even after four weeks of wonderful conversation it took a few hrs together to learn what it feels like to actually be in one another’s presence. We even talked about that before we met, to not create unrealistic expectations at the airport and expected to give some time to adjust to actually being together. It all felt relaxed and real this way and turned out great! That was three days together for a very beautiful first date weekend and then more face time and fun weekends together followed. Everything is falling into place as we envisioned it because we both have been intentional about making it happen. We have met one another’s families and friends, and our wedding date for being together everyday is set for July 8, 2018!
Our advice would be to start with a profile that truly reflects you and what you desire in a mate, and consider expanding the distance you will look. Once you connect, be real with feelings and intentions, be genuine in becoming good friends by sharing who you really are and connecting at different times of the day and night, have patience with one another and possibly the distance situation, and work to create a beautiful shared vision together for your future. There’s someone out there thinking and feeling the same things you are right now, waiting for you to reach out to them as they are preparing to reach out to you. They just may be a little farther than you thought of looking!
Blessings to everyone!.
We went on our first date on Super Sunday. I knew just weeks after that I wanted to continue to explore where this relationship is going. He’s a good man and I am happy to be getting to know him. 😄
PS works well if you are serious and ready to not play games.
We met at a coffee shop after talking on PS. I really dislike that your website charges 30 a month to send messages. I think you would make more money charging a lower amount that way more people sign up for the membership upgrade. I mean look at Planet Fitness. Your basic membership is only 10 dollars a month.
I am very pleased with my companion. He was the only one i responded to & i am grateful. I consider it a blessing. We hit it off from the very first meeting & we are looking forward to a a blessed future!!! together
I am dating someone I met on this site and we are both feeling pretty good that it will last. Thanks for everything, I have had a great experience using this site and very grateful I found it. If things do not work out I will definitely be back.
Rich had sent an email to me back in November. I wasn’t receiving email notifications even as a briefly paying member. I remembered when my subscription ran out you could email others and realized that I wasn’t receiving any. One night in early March, I fixed my settings to have the email notifications turned on and saw this email sitting there for me. When I opened it, I instantly wanted to reply! I did hoping to get a response because he had written it three months back. He did respond rather quickly and we instantly hit it off!! Thank you!! Been a pleasure having this!!
Rich had written an email to be at the end of November. My email notifications were not inhibited. Didn’t even know it was there even when I briefly was a paying member. At the beginning of March one night, I remembered early on as a non paying member, you could email. I went into my emails, saw that sitting and had been waiting. I read it, instantly wanted to email him, thinking though... hmmmm this is kind of old (November) ha! I replied anyways. We instantly hit it off!! Never been so amazed and happy!! Thank you!!!
I was on and off of this site for a long time, she was on for just a few weeks....we emailed for about a week and set up a meet-n-greet and we have been dating for 8 months now. It is the real deal and we are both amazed that we actually found each other. My only advice is to not give up, get out there and go on the dates.
I met someone through the site, and hopefully I won't be needing to search any more :) I found the site to be a GodSend for me. The guys were very friendly and willing to chat, more so than on ordinary dating sites. And on average, I also found the guys to be better looking.We had sporadic contact for about 3 weeks starting late Dec 2017. I then
reconnected with him properly in mid-Jan . I was away, so we messaged for a week and then met for dinner as soon as I got back. We knew after the first date that we had something special and by the end of the third date we were exclusive - that was almost 6 weeks ago. I am recently divorced and my date is only separated. There has been some talk about marriage in the future.
this app helped me find a guy of my dreams in one month it was worth my money . I love this app! I met a man about my age from same neighborhood and we know the same people - we exchanged numbers right away and met within a week and clicked instantly . he actually had the same last name as my ex and his ex girlfriend had the same type of name as mine (Athena ) my name is Cleopatra - thought that was kind of funny . we are dating and promised to dedicate our attention to each other and and delete our profiles . I feel like he may be the one and feelings are mutual - our similar condition also brought us together as we discussed how we got it and I feel like we will be able to trust and be honest with each other because we met on a Very personal level . Thank you so much for bringing us together !
I was devastated when I found out what I had, but then it brought me to my current boyfriend. It's our adventurous spirit that got us both in trouble, but int the end it worked out for the best. He's my soulmate. I guess everything happens for a reason.
I had almost given up hope, but it seems I've found someone very close to the desired profile. She pursued me quite a bit and I'm very impressed with her. Let's see how this goes. She's gorgeous but a private person, so no pictures just yet. Apologies and thanks again.