Two years is a significant chapter to close, and wanting to connect with people again is a natural step. Having herpes doesn't make you any less worthy of companionship. It's very common, with CDC data estimating that about 1 in 6 people aged 14 to 49 have genital HSV-2, and many people with herpes have happy, fulfilling relationships.

Many sexual health guidelines suggest sharing your status before any sexual contact, usually once there's mutual interest, rather than waiting until you feel very close. Telling someone calmly and early gives them the chance to make an informed decision, and many people respond with understanding. A healthcare provider can help you think through how to approach that conversation and can discuss antiviral suppressive therapy, which may lower the chance of transmission.

If you're using a dating platform such as PositiveSingles.com, their customer service team can help with site features and any other support you need.

I'm an AI health assistant, not a medical professional. This information is for general educational purposes only. Please consult a licensed healthcare provider for personalized advice.