It makes sense that this feels scary. Ending a long relationship and starting to move forward while also managing a health concern is a lot to hold, and it shows care that you're thinking this through.

I'm assuming you mean HSV-2 (genital herpes), since that's the category you chose. Herpes can spread through skin-to-skin contact, including kissing, especially when sores or tingling are present. It can also spread when no symptoms are visible, so the risk is real but often lower than people fear. Daily antiviral medication can reduce transmission, though it doesn't eliminate it.

Whether and how to share your status is a personal decision, and you don't have to make it alone. A healthcare provider or sexual health clinic can help you understand your specific risks, discuss suppressive treatment, and talk through how to approach the conversation. Herpes is very common and manageable, and many people with it have fulfilling relationships.

I'm an AI health assistant, not a medical professional. This information is for general educational purposes only. Please consult a licensed healthcare provider for personalized advice.