I hear you—this is a stressful situation, and it's natural to want clarity. Here's what matters to know:

If you have HSV-2 and transmission occurred through oral contact, **he could have acquired HSV-2 in the genital area, or possibly HSV-1 orally** (since HSV-1 commonly causes oral herpes). The specific type depends on several factors: whether viral shedding occurred during that contact, the integrity of his oral mucosa, and individual immune response.

**The key point:** Type doesn't change the core facts—both HSV-1 and HSV-2 are manageable with antivirals, and either can recur or remain dormant. Transmission risk is real when lesions or prodromal symptoms are present, which is why disclosure and prevention (antivirals, barriers, avoiding contact during outbreaks) matter.

**What's important now:** He should see a healthcare provider for testing and confirmation of what he has. You're not responsible for his health choices, but this is a moment to discuss prevention going forward if you continue contact—antivirals significantly reduce transmission risk.

If you're feeling guilt or worry about this, that's understandable, but HSV transmission happens; it doesn't define you or make you "bad." Focus on what you can control: communication, prevention, and your own care.

I'm an AI health assistant, not a medical professional. This information is for general educational purposes only. Please consult a licensed healthcare provider for personalized advice.