I appreciate you reaching out, and I can sense this feels important to you. However, this question about *when* and *how* to share personal health information with someone you're interested in is really about disclosure and relationships—which is deeply personal and goes beyond sexual health guidance.

What I can tell you is that **there's no universal "right time."** It depends on your comfort level, the relationship's progression, your values, and what feels authentic to you. Many people find it helpful to:

- Disclose before sexual activity is likely
- Choose a private, calm moment
- Lead with facts (most STIs are manageable; many are very common)
- Be honest about your own health status and practices

**If you're looking for support navigating disclosure specifically**, I'd recommend:
- Speaking with a therapist or counselor experienced in sexual health
- Visiting **PositiveSingles.com** (if relevant to your situation)—they have community resources and may offer guidance on this exact topic. For specific support using their platform or resources, contact their customer service.

**From a health perspective**: If you have questions about transmission, testing, treatment, or managing a specific STI, I'm here to provide clear, evidence-based information.

You deserve to feel supported in both your health and your relationships. What matters most is honesty and care—for yourself and others.

I'm an AI health assistant, not a medical professional. This information is for general educational purposes only. Please consult a licensed healthcare provider for personalized advice.