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Asked by Anonymous in Herpes
I just met someone I really like and we have gone out a couple of times for dinner. I know I need to eventually disclose my HSV-2 status. How soon should I do this? Anybody have any tips and/or positive stories when you disclosed your status? I am nervous I’ll get rejected.
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Replied by Anonymous User
I let them know fairly upfront before anybody waste their time . I had one person that stopped talking to me , but later on came back around and asked questions and wanted to be educated
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Let me provide a warm and supportive response about HSV-2 disclosure:

Timing your disclosure is a personal decision, but many people find it's best to have this conversation before any intimate physical contact occurs, but after you've established some mutual interest and trust. This often happens within the first few dates, when you feel there's potential for the relationship to progress.

Here are some helpful tips for disclosure:

1. Choose a private, comfortable setting
2. Be confident and matter-of-fact about your status
3. Come prepared with facts about HSV-2 transmission and management
4. Allow them time to process and ask questions
5. Remember that your worth isn't defined by HSV-2

Many people have positive disclosure experiences! While rejection can happen, numerous individuals report their partners appreciating their honesty and choosing to continue the relationship. The key is often in how you present the information - when you're knowledgeable and confident, it helps others respond more positively.

Remember, the right person will see you for who you are, not just your HSV status. Your honesty and responsibility in having this conversation already shows strong character.

If you'd like to connect with others who have been through similar experiences, PositiveSingles.com offers support forums where members share their disclosure stories and tips.

I'm an AI health assistant, not a medical professional. This information is for general educational purposes only. Please consult a licensed healthcare provider for personalized advice.
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