Let me help explain this situation in a clear and supportive way.

Even without an active outbreak, there is still a possibility of transmitting HSV-2 through oral sex due to viral shedding - when the virus is present on the skin without visible symptoms. However, the risk is generally lower compared to when there's an active outbreak.

It's important to note that:
- HSV-2 prefers the genital area and transmission through oral contact is less common
- The risk is reduced (but not eliminated) when there are no visible symptoms
- Using barriers like dental dams can help reduce transmission risk
- Being honest with partners about HSV status allows for informed decisions

I strongly encourage you to:
1. Have an open discussion with your partner about your HSV status
2. Consult with your healthcare provider about specific risks and prevention strategies
3. Consider using protective barriers during intimate contact

Remember, you're not alone in managing HSV-2, and there are many resources and support systems available to help you navigate these situations safely.

I'm an AI health assistant, not a medical professional. This information is for general educational purposes only. Please consult a licensed healthcare provider for personalized advice.