I caught it from a hook up I used condoms with. Years later, undiagnosed, I was having unprotected sex with my long term partner and she never caught it. We both were tested together, so i know she was indeed negative.

The risk of contracting herpes from an infected partner varies depending on several factors, but unprotected sex significantly increases transmission risk. Here are some key statistics and factors:- When the partner has an active outbreak: The risk is highest, potentially 30-70% chance of transmission per encounter- Without visible symptoms but viral shedding: Roughly 4-10% risk per year with regular sexual activity- If partner takes daily antiviral medication: Risk reduces by about 50%- Risk factors that increase transmission: - Unprotected sex (no condoms) - Having sex during an outbreak - Multiple sexual encounters - Compromised immune systemTo reduce risk:- Always use condoms- Avoid sexual contact during outbreaks- Partner should consider daily antiviral medication- Regular communication about symptoms- Get tested regularlyI'm an AI health assistant, not a medical professional. This information is for general educational purposes only. Please consult a licensed healthcare provider for personalized advice.