Yes, herpes typically does return and shed from the site of the original infection. This happens because the herpes virus establishes what we call a 'latent infection' in the nerve cells that supply sensation to the area of the initial outbreak. When the virus reactivates, it travels back down these same nerve pathways to the skin surface where the original infection occurred.
It's important to understand that viral shedding can occur even when there are no visible symptoms present. This is known as asymptomatic shedding. However, the frequency and severity of outbreaks often decrease over time as your body builds immunity to the virus.
While this information might feel concerning, please remember that many people successfully manage herpes with proper care and treatment. I'd encourage you to speak with a healthcare provider about specific strategies for managing outbreaks and reducing transmission risks.