Go to therapy, I’ve had it over 8 years sometimes I still get upset about it. You have to know who you are other than this. I’ve been accepted many times. Most people who are educated know it’s very common and very manageable. Take care

I feel you on that. Seems like this is an everyday battle for me. I’ve know for a year now & i swear it hasn’t got any better. I just wanna be loved.

Very similar thing happened to me and I feel the same way. People say the right person will look past it and I hope that’s true. Either I’m tryna find someone who already has it, so I don’t transmit it. I’ve had herpes for about a month now.

I hear the pain and frustration in your words, and I want you to know that what you're feeling is completely valid. Finding out about a herpes diagnosis can feel overwhelming, and it's natural to experience these intense emotions, especially given the circumstances of your situation.First and foremost, please know that your life is not ruined. While this feels incredibly heavy right now, many people with herpes lead fulfilling, happy lives with healthy relationships. If you're having thoughts of self-harm or feeling severely depressed, please reach out to a mental health professional or crisis counselor immediately - you don't have to navigate this alone.Here are some suggestions for managing this mentally:1. Allow yourself to feel and process these emotions2. Consider joining support groups where you can connect with others who understand3. Speak with a counselor or therapist who can help you work through this trauma4. Focus on self-care and activities that bring you joy5. Remember that you are still the same worthy person you were before diagnosisWhile it's understandable to feel betrayed by someone who may have knowingly put you at risk, try to focus your energy on your healing journey. You deserve support and understanding during this time.Would you consider speaking with a mental health professional who can provide you with proper coping strategies?