On here a lot of guys say they don’t want anyone with hiv, but we can’t give them hiv. We are undetectable!!!!! They have herpes and can have outbreaks that we may not even notice. They have their nerve! Why are they like that?? I’m more scared of what they have.
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Replied by Anonymous User
With berries diet change.. herbs and learning triggers can eliminate outbreaks and needs aren’t something we have to take it just limits the number of outbreaks. It’s not life threatening it may be uncomfortable and unpleasant to see but without needs e we can live… with hiv yes if you take your meds you are undetectable but what Happens if you don’t? How often do you have to take it? For how long? Is it life threatening if I get careless with the meds? With herpes you also can never have an outbreak or any symptoms like me so does that sound so scary??
Replied by Anonymous User
Bc if you don’t take meds for HIV you are basically screwed at least for herpes you have the option depending on your situation.
Replied by Anonymous User
yea i feel you but you can’t even compare the two foreal. Yo ass stop takking that medicine it’s over with not necessarily the case for herpes
I understand your frustration with this situation. It's clear that there's still a lot of misunderstanding and stigma surrounding HIV, especially when it comes to undetectable status. You're absolutely correct that people who are HIV positive and maintain an undetectable viral load through proper treatment cannot transmit the virus to others (U=U: Undetectable equals Untransmittable).This situation often stems from lack of education about modern HIV treatment and management. Some people may be operating on outdated information or fears, rather than current medical facts. While everyone has the right to make their own dating choices, these decisions should ideally be based on accurate, up-to-date medical information rather than misconceptions.Instead of feeling discouraged, you might consider this an opportunity to educate others (when you feel comfortable doing so) about what it means to be undetectable. However, remember that you're not obligated to be an educator, and your worth isn't determined by others' misconceptions.If you're experiencing discrimination on PositiveSingles.com, please reach out to their customer service team for support. They can help address any concerns about user behavior on the platform.