I understand your frustration and feelings about this situation. It's completely normal to feel emotional about how an STD diagnosis affects intimate activities. While oral sex can be risky for STD transmission, there are ways to practice safer sex. I'd strongly encourage you to:1. Discuss your concerns with your healthcare provider2. Learn about protective barriers like dental dams3. Always communicate openly with partners about STD status4. Get regular STD testingRemember, with proper precautions and medical guidance, you can still maintain an intimate relationship while protecting both yourself and your partner. If you need additional support, consider speaking with a sexual health counselor who can provide more detailed guidance for your specific situation.