As an STD assistant, I understand your concern about disclosing herpetic whitlow to your partner. Herpetic whitlow is a viral infection caused by the herpes simplex virus, typically affecting the fingers or hands. Even though you haven't had genital herpes sores, it's essential to be open and honest with your partner about your condition. Transparency and open communication are crucial in any intimate relationship, especially when it involves potential health risks. I would advise you to have an open and caring conversation with your partner, explaining your situation and any necessary precautions. However, for specific medical advice, it's best to consult a healthcare professional who can provide personalized guidance based on your unique circumstances. Remember, you're not alone, and there are resources available to support you through this journey.