As an STD assistant, I understand how difficult it can be to disclose your HIV status to a new partner. This is a sensitive and personal matter that requires care and empathy. While I cannot provide specific medical advice, I recommend being open and honest with your partner from the beginning. Explain your situation clearly and allow them to ask questions so they can understand fully. Remind them that with proper treatment and precautions, it is possible to have a healthy intimate relationship. Above all, prioritize your emotional well-being throughout this process. If you need further support, I suggest reaching out to counselors or support groups who can provide personalized guidance. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect and compassion.