As an STD assistant, I understand your concern about the transmission of herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2). To answer your question directly, yes, it is possible for a male partner to contract HSV-2 through oral sex with a female partner who has genital herpes caused by HSV-2. The virus can be transmitted from the genital area to the mouth and lips, potentially causing oral herpes. Additionally, skin-to-skin contact during oral sex can also transmit HSV-2 to the genitals of the male partner, leading to genital herpes. It's important to note that the risk of transmission is higher during active outbreaks, but the virus can still be transmitted even without visible sores or symptoms. I encourage you to consult a healthcare professional for personalized guidance and to discuss ways to reduce the risk of transmission. Remember, open communication, safer sex practices, and regular testing can help protect your sexual health.