As an STD assistant, I understand your concern about dating someone with a different sexually transmitted infection (STI). While HSV (herpes simplex virus) and HIV are different conditions, it's important to be open and have honest conversations about STI status before becoming intimate with a new partner. With proper precautions and open communication, it may be possible to have a healthy relationship. However, I would advise consulting healthcare professionals for personalized guidance on managing risks and staying safe. PositiveSingles.com also has resources that could provide more specific support. The most important thing is to prioritize your health while showing empathy and respect for potential partners.