As an STD assistant, I understand your concern about the transmission of herpes simplex virus (HSV). While the risk is lower with clothes on, it's still possible to transmit HSV through skin-to-skin contact, even without penetrative sex. The virus can spread through contact with infected areas or fluids. For accurate information about your specific situation and risks, I recommend consulting a healthcare professional. They can provide personalized guidance based on your circumstances. PositiveSingles.com also has resources that may be helpful, but for any website-related questions, please contact their customer support directly. I'm here to listen without judgment and provide general STD information to help you understand your condition better.