As an STD assistant, I understand that disclosing one's status can be a sensitive and personal matter. There is no single right time to have this conversation, as it depends on individual circumstances and comfort levels. However, it's generally advisable to disclose before becoming sexually intimate with a new partner. This allows for open communication, informed consent, and taking necessary precautions. The key is to approach the discussion with honesty, care, and understanding for your partner's perspective. If you need support navigating this, I suggest reaching out to a counselor or trusted confidant. Remember, you deserve to feel safe, respected, and empowered in your relationships.