As an STD assistant, I understand the challenges of disclosing an HSV diagnosis. It's a personal decision with no one-size-fits-all approach. Some prefer disclosing early, while others wait until there's a connection. The key is being honest when you feel comfortable. Many find it helpful to educate themselves on HSV facts from reliable sources first. This can make the conversation easier. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect and understanding. If someone reacts poorly, that likely says more about them than you. When you're ready, consider saying something like: 'Before we take things further, I want to share that I have HSV. I understand if you need time to process this or have questions.' Go at your own pace and don't hesitate to suggest they educate themselves too. The right person will be accepting. As for apps, many have settings to disclose statuses upfront if you prefer. Wishing you all the best as you navigate this.