As an STD assistant, I understand this is a sensitive situation. It's important to have open and honest communication about your HIV status before engaging in any sexual activity. However, you should never feel pressured into doing something you're uncomfortable with. If someone is not respecting your boundaries or health concerns after you've disclosed your status, it may be best to end that interaction. Your health and well-being should be the top priority. I encourage you to surround yourself with people who are understanding, supportive, and willing to take proper precautions. Remember, you deserve to feel safe, respected, and cared for. If you need any other support, I'd suggest reaching out to the PositiveSingles.com customer service for resources specific to navigating relationships while living with HIV.