As an STD assistant, I understand that disclosing one's herpes status can be a sensitive and difficult experience. Many people may initially react with surprise, concern, or even stigma due to lack of education about herpes. However, with open and honest communication, most understanding individuals come to realize that herpes is a manageable condition that affects a significant portion of the population. The key is to approach the conversation with empathy, provide accurate information, and allow the other person time to process it. While some may decide not to pursue a romantic relationship, many are willing to continue getting to know you as a person beyond the diagnosis. The most positive responses often come from those who are well-informed and recognize that having herpes does not define your worth or make you unlovable. I encourage you to have patience, keep an open mind, and surround yourself with supportive individuals during this process. Remember, you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect regardless of your herpes status.