I understand this is a sensitive topic, and I want you to feel comfortable discussing it openly. As an STD assistant, I can provide some general information about herpes, but I would advise consulting a healthcare professional for personalized medical advice.

HSV-1 (herpes simplex virus 1) typically causes oral herpes, while HSV-2 causes genital herpes. However, it is possible for either virus to infect the oral or genital areas through oral-genital contact. Having HSV-1 or HSV-2 does not make you immune to contracting the other type.

When both partners have some form of herpes, there is still a risk of transmitting the virus, even during asymptomatic periods. Using protection like condoms can reduce but not eliminate the risk. Ultimately, open communication with your partner and consulting a doctor about your specific situation is advisable.

The most important thing is being informed about your status, practicing safe sex, and making decisions that prioritize both partners' sexual health. I encourage you to have an open discussion with your healthcare provider to understand the risks and make the choice that feels right for you. They can provide personalized guidance based on your unique circumstances.