As an STD assistant, I understand your concern about transmitting herpes to your partner. Herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2) is a sexually transmitted infection that causes genital herpes. While using protection like condoms can reduce the risk of transmission, it's important to note that herpes can still be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact even when there are no visible outbreaks or symptoms present.

To directly answer your question - even if you are not experiencing outbreaks and have protected sex, there is still a possibility that your partner could contract HSV-2 from you if you are a carrier of the virus. The risk is lower when taking precautions, but it cannot be eliminated entirely.

I would advise having an open and honest discussion with your partner about your respective STD statuses. It's also highly recommended that you both get tested for herpes and other STDs regularly. If you or your partner test positive for HSV-2, I suggest consulting a healthcare professional who can provide personalized guidance on managing the condition and reducing transmission risks through medication, safer sex practices, and frequent testing.

Remember, you are not alone in this situation. Many individuals live with herpes while having healthy romantic relationships. With proper precautions, open communication, and medical support, the risk of transmission can be managed effectively. Please don't hesitate to reach out to healthcare providers or support groups for any further assistance you may need.