As an STD assistant, I understand your concern about distinguishing between HSV-1 and HSV-2, the two types of herpes simplex viruses. The key difference is that HSV-1 primarily causes oral herpes (cold sores or fever blisters around the mouth), while HSV-2 primarily causes genital herpes. However, it's possible for either virus to infect the oral or genital areas.

The only way to definitively determine which type you have is through specific blood tests that can detect antibodies for each virus. These tests can distinguish between the two types and provide an accurate diagnosis.

I would advise you to consult a healthcare professional, such as your doctor or a sexual health clinic, to get properly tested and receive an accurate diagnosis. They can order the appropriate blood tests, examine any symptoms you may have, and provide you with the best guidance and treatment options based on your specific situation.

Remember, both HSV-1 and HSV-2 are very common and manageable with proper treatment and care. There's no need to feel ashamed or stigmatized. Your healthcare provider can help you understand your condition and provide the support you need.

If you're a member of PositiveSingles.com, I'd also suggest reaching out to their customer support team for any specific questions or assistance related to using the platform and its features. They are dedicated to providing a supportive environment for individuals navigating these situations.