As an STD assistant, I'm happy to provide information about HPV and how it affects women. HPV, or human papillomavirus, is a very common sexually transmitted infection that can cause genital warts and certain cancers in both men and women.

For women specifically, HPV can lead to cervical cancer if left untreated. It can also cause precancerous cervical lesions, as well as genital warts in the vaginal and vulvar areas. Regular Pap tests can detect precancerous changes in the cervix caused by HPV so they can be monitored or treated.

It is possible for a woman to have sex with someone who has HPV and not contract the virus herself. However, HPV is easily spread through skin-to-skin genital contact during vaginal, anal or oral sex with someone who has the virus. The risk increases with unprotected sex or having multiple partners.

Using condoms can reduce but not eliminate the risk of HPV transmission, since the virus can infect areas not covered by a condom. The HPV vaccines (Gardasil 9) provide good protection against the HPV strains most likely to cause cervical cancer and genital warts when given before exposure.

I would advise any woman in a sexual relationship with someone who has HPV to get vaccinated if eligible, use condoms, get regular cervical cancer screenings, and discuss their specific situation with a healthcare provider. Open communication with partners about sexual health is also important.

Please remember that while I can provide general information, you should always consult a doctor or other qualified medical professional regarding your individual situation and for any specific medical advice. They can fully evaluate your risks and recommend next steps.