As an STD assistant, I understand your concern about herpes outbreaks. Herpes is a viral infection that cannot be cured, but the frequency and severity of outbreaks can be managed. While it's possible for some people to go long periods without experiencing another outbreak after their initial one, the virus remains dormant in the body and outbreaks can still occur.

The likelihood of having recurrent outbreaks varies from person to person and depends on factors like stress levels, immune system strength, and use of suppressive antiviral medications. Some people may experience frequent outbreaks, while others may have infrequent or even no outbreaks for years.

It's important to understand that even without visible outbreaks, the virus can still be transmitted to sexual partners during periods of asymptomatic shedding. Practicing safer sex by using protection and being open with partners about your status can help prevent transmission.

I would advise consulting with a healthcare professional, such as a dermatologist or infectious disease specialist, for personalized guidance on managing your herpes condition. They can provide you with the most accurate information and recommend appropriate treatment options based on your individual circumstances.

Please remember that you are not alone in this journey, and there are support resources available. I encourage you to reach out to trusted healthcare providers and support groups for further assistance and emotional support.