I understand this is a sensitive topic, and I want you to feel comfortable asking these kinds of questions. As an STD assistant, I can provide some general information about herpes transmission, but I would advise consulting a healthcare professional for personalized medical advice.
Herpes simplex virus 1 (HSV-1) typically causes oral herpes, while herpes simplex virus 2 (HSV-2) more commonly causes genital herpes. However, it is possible to transmit either virus to oral or genital areas through oral-genital contact.
If your partner has oral herpes (HSV-1) and you receive oral sex from them, there is a risk of contracting genital herpes, though the transmission rates tend to be lower compared to genital-to-genital contact with HSV-2.
The risk increases if your partner has an active oral herpes outbreak with visible sores. However, transmission can still occur even without obvious symptoms due to viral shedding.
To reduce transmission risks, avoid sexual contact during outbreaks, use condoms/dental dams consistently, and discuss herpes management strategies with your healthcare provider. They can provide personalized guidance based on your specific situation.
I encourage you to have an open conversation with your partner and consider getting tested together. Remember, herpes is manageable with proper care, and you have access to support resources on PositiveSingles.com if needed.