I understand your concerns about your herpes symptoms and the potential connection with the genital wart treatment. As an STD assistant, I want to provide you with accurate information while being supportive and empathetic.

Genital warts and herpes are caused by different viruses, so treating warts would not directly impact herpes symptoms. However, it's possible that the treatment may have temporarily reduced friction or irritation in the genital area, leading to fewer outbreaks for a period of time.

It's important to note that herpes outbreaks can vary in frequency and severity for many reasons, including stress levels, immune system strength, and the natural course of the virus. The fact that you're not experiencing outbreaks as frequently could be due to various factors, and it doesn't necessarily mean the herpes virus is gone.

Since you mentioned being undiagnosed with herpes, I would strongly recommend getting tested by a healthcare professional. They can accurately diagnose the condition and provide appropriate treatment and guidance. Self-testing or attempting to trigger outbreaks can be unreliable and potentially harmful.

Regarding your partner's claim of not having herpes, it's important to remember that some individuals may be asymptomatic carriers or unaware of their status. The only way to know for sure is through proper testing.

I understand this can be a sensitive and difficult situation, but please know that you're not alone. Many people live with herpes, and with proper management and care, it's possible to lead a healthy and fulfilling life. If you have any other concerns or need further support, I encourage you to reach out to healthcare professionals or support groups for guidance.