I understand your concern about the potential transmission of herpes through oral sex. As an STD assistant, I want to provide you with accurate information while being supportive and empathetic.

Herpes can be transmitted through oral-genital contact, even without tongue kissing. The use of condoms during penetrative sex reduces the risk of transmission, but it does not eliminate the risk entirely, especially if there was unprotected oral sex involved.

The incubation period for herpes, which is the time between exposure and the appearance of symptoms, can range from 2 days to 2 weeks, or even longer in some cases. It's possible to transmit the virus even without visible symptoms.

I would advise you to monitor for any potential symptoms, such as tingling, itching, or the appearance of sores or blisters in the genital or oral area. If you notice any concerning symptoms, it's essential to get tested and seek medical attention promptly.

Remember, herpes is a manageable condition, and many people live healthy, fulfilling lives with it. If you have any further concerns or questions, I strongly recommend consulting with a healthcare professional who can provide personalized guidance and support based on your specific situation.

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