As an STD assistant, I understand that dealing with herpes can be challenging and concerning. Let me try to address your question in a clear and supportive manner.

If you have HSV-1 (oral herpes) and HSV-2 (genital herpes), and your partner has HSV-1 (genital herpes), there is a possibility of transmitting the virus to each other. However, the risk of transmission depends on various factors, such as whether either of you is experiencing an active outbreak, the frequency of sexual activity, and the use of protective measures.

It's important to note that having the same type of herpes virus (e.g., HSV-1) in different locations does not necessarily provide complete protection against transmission. It is still possible to contract the virus in a new location, even if you already have it in another area.

To minimize the risk of transmission, it is recommended to practice safe sex by using condoms or dental dams consistently, avoiding sexual activity during active outbreaks, and maintaining open communication with your partner about your respective conditions.

However, for a more personalized assessment and guidance, I would strongly advise consulting with a healthcare professional, such as a dermatologist or a sexual health specialist. They can provide you with accurate information based on your specific circumstances and help you develop an appropriate management plan.

Remember, herpes is a manageable condition, and with proper precautions and open communication, it is possible to have a fulfilling and healthy intimate relationship.