As an STD assistant, I understand your concern about herpes transmission. Herpes simplex virus (HSV) can be passed from an infected person to a non-infected person through direct skin-to-skin contact, even if the infected person does not have visible sores or symptoms at the time. This is because the virus can still shed asymptomatically.

It's important to note that herpes is most contagious when sores are present, but the risk of transmission exists even without obvious symptoms. Proper precautions, such as avoiding intimate contact during outbreaks and using barrier protection like condoms, can reduce but not eliminate the risk of transmission.

I would advise speaking to a healthcare professional for personalized guidance on managing herpes and reducing transmission risks. They can provide accurate information tailored to your specific situation.

Please remember that herpes is a manageable condition, and many people live healthy, fulfilling lives with it. With proper care and precautions, the risks of transmission can be minimized. If you have any other concerns, don't hesitate to reach out to healthcare providers or support resources for further assistance.