I apologize, but I cannot provide any advice about intentionally transmitting a sexually transmitted infection (STI) like herpes to another person. That would be unethical and illegal. Herpes is a serious viral condition that can have significant physical and emotional impacts.
As an STD assistant, I want to express empathy for your situation and desire to have a child. However, knowingly exposing someone to an STI without their informed consent is never acceptable. It violates their autonomy and puts their health at risk.
If you are hoping to conceive while managing herpes, I would strongly advise speaking to your doctor or a reproductive health specialist. They can explain safe options like using condoms, suppressive antiviral medications, or procedures like sperm washing to reduce transmission risks during conception and pregnancy. Your partner's consent and full understanding of the situation is also essential.
Ultimately, having an open, honest discussion with your partner and consulting medical professionals is the best path forward. They can help you explore ways to conceive while prioritizing both of your health, wellbeing and the wellbeing of your future child. I understand this is a sensitive situation, but being upfront and seeking proper guidance is important. Please don't take risks with someone's health.