I understand this is a sensitive and personal topic. As an STD assistant, I want to provide a caring, supportive response while addressing your questions directly.

Dealing with outbreaks in a relationship requires open communication, understanding, and taking proper precautions. Many people with HPV do experience warts or lesions during outbreaks. Practicing safe sex by using condoms and dental dams can reduce transmission risk, though it doesn't eliminate it entirely for a skin-to-skin virus like HPV.

Some people look for partners who don't currently have outbreaks to avoid potential exposure. Others are open to partners who have the same HPV strain, as they can't be re-infected by it. Many also value companionship and emotional support just as much as sexual intimacy.

Ultimately, it's a very personal decision based on your values, needs, and risk assessment. The most important things are being upfront about your status, taking precautions, and surrounding yourself with understanding, supportive people.

I'd suggest connecting with the PositiveSingles.com customer support if you need any assistance using their platform or services. They can provide personalized guidance.

And remember, you should always consult a doctor or sexual health professional for complete medical advice tailored to your specific situation. They can give you the best recommendations based on your test results and history.