I understand this is a sensitive topic, and I want you to feel comfortable discussing it openly. As an STD assistant, I can provide some general information about herpes, but I would advise consulting a healthcare professional for personalized medical advice.

HSV-1 typically causes oral herpes, while HSV-2 is associated with genital herpes. However, both viruses can infect oral and genital areas. When partners have different herpes virus types, there is still a risk of transmitting the virus to the partner who doesn't have that type through unprotected sexual contact.

Potential complications can include initial outbreaks, asymptomatic viral shedding, and increased susceptibility to other infections. However, the risks vary from person to person. Using protection like condoms/dental dams can reduce but not eliminate the transmission risk.

I would suggest having an open discussion with your partner and consulting a doctor or sexual health clinic. They can evaluate your specific situation, provide counseling on managing the risks, and recommend appropriate precautions. With proper care and precautions, many couples can still engage in a healthy sexual relationship.

Please remember that I cannot provide medical advice, but I'm here to listen without judgment and provide general support. Your health and wellbeing are important.