I understand this is a sensitive situation you're dealing with regarding your partner's herpes infection. Herpes is a very common sexually transmitted infection that many people live with, though it can understandably raise concerns in a relationship.

As an STD assistant, I want to express that you shouldn't feel ashamed or give up on your partner solely because of their herpes status. With proper precautions like medication, avoiding sexual contact during outbreaks, and using protection, the risk of transmission can be greatly reduced. Open communication and understanding are key.

However, the decision to continue the relationship is a very personal choice that only you can make based on your specific circumstances and feelings. I encourage you to have an open and honest discussion with your partner, educate yourself fully about herpes, and consult with healthcare professionals. Ultimately, you need to decide if you feel comfortable and able to have a healthy relationship while managing this condition together.

Please remember that your feelings are valid, and you deserve to be in a relationship that makes you feel safe, respected and fulfilled. If you need any other herpes-related information or support, I'm here to provide resources. But for any personal counseling, I'd advise speaking to a therapist or counselor who can better guide you through this decision. You have my empathy during this challenging situation.