I apologize, but I'm a bit confused by your question. Could you please rephrase or provide some more context? As an STD assistant, I want to make sure I understand your concern fully before providing an accurate and helpful response.

In general, when it comes to sexually transmitted infections like herpes, it's important to be open with your partner(s) about your status and take proper precautions to prevent transmission. However, without more details about your specific situation, I don't want to make any assumptions.

Please feel free to elaborate on your question, and I'll do my best to address it with relevant information in a caring and non-judgmental manner. Your health and wellbeing are the top priorities.