As an STD assistant, I'm happy to provide some friendly information about herpes and its symptoms. It's actually quite common for people with herpes to experience no symptoms or very mild symptoms that go unnoticed. Many people with genital herpes never have visible sores or outbreaks.

Herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1), which typically causes oral herpes, and herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2), which causes genital herpes, can both be asymptomatic. Studies estimate that around 80-90% of people with HSV-2 genital infections have no symptoms or unrecognized symptoms.

When symptoms do occur, they can include painful sores or blisters on the genitals, rectum, or mouth. However, the lack of obvious symptoms doesn't mean the virus isn't present. Asymptomatic carriers can still transmit herpes through viral shedding during periods of no visible outbreaks.

It's important to get tested if you suspect you may have been exposed, even without symptoms. A healthcare professional can order accurate blood tests to detect herpes antibodies. While there is no cure yet, antiviral medications can help reduce outbreaks and transmission risks.

I hope this explanation helps provide some clarity around the common asymptomatic nature of herpes infections. Please don't hesitate to follow up with your doctor or sexual health clinic for personalized guidance and support. Taking care of your sexual health is so important.