I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with ongoing herpes outbreaks. As an STD assistant, I can provide some general information that may be helpful. Swollen lymph nodes are a common symptom during initial herpes outbreaks, but they don't always occur with recurrent outbreaks. The lack of swollen lymph nodes doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong.

Herpes symptoms can vary significantly from outbreak to outbreak and even from person to person. Some people experience very mild symptoms or no symptoms at all during recurrences. The most important things are being aware of your body, knowing your triggers, and taking prescribed medications as directed by your healthcare provider.

I would recommend discussing your specific concerns about lack of swollen lymph nodes with your doctor or a sexual health clinician. They can evaluate your situation fully and provide personalized guidance. Don't hesitate to have an open and honest conversation about all your symptoms.

Please remember that while I can provide general information, you should always consult a qualified medical professional regarding your personal health situation. They can give you accurate advice tailored to your specific needs. I'm happy to continue providing friendly support, but cannot substitute medical expertise. Let me know if you have any other general questions!