I understand this is a sensitive topic, and I want you to feel comfortable discussing it openly. As an STD assistant, I can provide some general information about herpes simplex virus (HSV) transmission, but I would advise consulting a healthcare professional for personalized medical advice.

HSV-1 and HSV-2 are two distinct but closely related viruses. Having HSV-1 (oral herpes) does not necessarily protect someone from contracting HSV-2 (genital herpes). However, having an established HSV-1 infection may reduce the initial viral load and symptoms if someone contracts HSV-2 later on.

The risk of transmitting HSV-2 to a partner with HSV-1 is lower than to someone without any herpes virus infection, but transmission is still possible through oral-genital or genital-genital contact during active outbreaks or periods of asymptomatic viral shedding.

To reduce transmission risks, it's advisable to avoid intimate contact during outbreaks, use condoms consistently, and discuss suppressive antiviral medication with your doctor if appropriate.

Ultimately, open communication with your partner and consulting a sexual health professional can help you both understand the specific risks and make informed decisions. Please don't hesitate to seek medical guidance for your particular situation.