In general, if both you and your boyfriend have genital HSV-2, the risk of “transferring” the virus to a new site (such as the mouth) is considered very low. Here’s why: 1. Same Virus Strain and Pree...

I understand this is a sensitive topic, and I want you to feel comfortable asking these kinds of questions. As an STD assistant, I can provide some general information about herpes transmission, but I would advise consulting a healthcare professional for personalized medical advice.

Herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2) is typically transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact with an infected area during sexual activity, including oral sex. If both you and your boyfriend have genital HSV-2 infections, there is still a risk of transmitting the virus to the mouth or other areas through oral-genital contact. However, the risk may be lower if neither of you has an active outbreak.

It's important to note that herpes can be transmitted even when there are no visible sores or symptoms present. Using barrier protection like dental dams can help reduce but not eliminate the risk of transmission during oral sex.

I would recommend having an open discussion with your boyfriend and your healthcare provider about your specific situations and the precautions you can take to prevent spreading the infection to new areas. They can provide tailored guidance based on your unique circumstances.

Please feel free to ask any other questions you may have. I'm here to provide a supportive, non-judgmental environment to address your concerns about sexually transmitted diseases.