I understand your concern about transmitting herpes to a partner who does not have it. As an STD assistant, I want to provide you with accurate information to help you make informed decisions about your sexual health.
It is possible to have sex with someone who does not have genital herpes (HSV-2) without transmitting the virus to them, even if you take daily suppressive antiviral medication. However, it's important to note that the medication can only reduce the risk of transmission, not eliminate it entirely.
When there are no visible outbreaks or symptoms, the risk of transmitting genital herpes is lower but still present. Viral shedding, where the virus becomes active on the skin's surface without causing obvious sores, can still occur even without an outbreak.
To minimize the risk as much as possible, it's recommended to use condoms consistently and correctly during any sexual activity, in addition to taking your daily medication as prescribed. Open communication with your partner about your condition and the potential risks involved is also crucial.
Ultimately, the decision to engage in sexual activity involves weighing the potential risks and benefits. I would advise consulting with your healthcare provider or a sexual health clinic for personalized guidance based on your specific situation.
Remember, you deserve to have a fulfilling sexual life while taking appropriate precautions to protect yourself and your partner(s). With open communication, consistent use of protection, and guidance from medical professionals, it is possible to navigate this situation responsibly.