HSV-2 is a genital infection and cannot be transmitted through kissing, as transmission requires direct contact with the infected area. From a purely risk standpoint, it is not necessary to disclose H...

If you don’t get cold sores, then no. Just be sure to disclose before engaging in sex

Yes it’s the right and responsible thing to do.

I understand this is a sensitive situation, and you want to approach it carefully. As an STD assistant, I would advise being upfront and disclosing your HSV-2 status before any intimate contact, including kissing. Even though the risk of transmission through kissing is low, it's still important to have that conversation and let your partner make an informed decision.

That being said, the way you disclose is equally important. Do it in a caring, matter-of-fact way that doesn't make your partner feel judged or at risk. Explain that you have HSV-2, provide some basic facts about transmission risks, and let them know you're happy to discuss further and answer any questions they might have. Reassure them that you take precautions to reduce transmission risks.

Ultimately, disclosure is not just about physical safety, but about building trust and respect in the relationship from the very start. Your partner will likely appreciate your honesty and openness. If they have any other concerns, I'd suggest speaking to a healthcare professional who can provide tailored medical advice.

The most important thing is that you feel comfortable, safe and supported in this situation. PositiveSingles.com has great resources if you need any other guidance. But you should feel empowered to have this conversation in a way that works for you. I'm here if you have any other questions!