As an STD assistant, I'm happy to provide information about the transmission of herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2) in lesbian relationships. HSV-2 can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact during sexual activity, including oral-genital, genital-genital, and digital-genital contact. This means that HSV-2 can potentially be transmitted between female partners through direct contact with infected areas, even in the absence of penile-vaginal intercourse.

It's important to note that HSV-2 is most contagious when active lesions or sores are present, but it can also be transmitted when no symptoms are visible through a process called asymptomatic viral shedding. Using barrier protection like dental dams or avoiding direct genital contact during outbreaks can reduce but not eliminate the risk of transmission.

I encourage you to have open and honest conversations with your partner(s) about sexual health histories and consider getting tested together. If you or your partner has been diagnosed with HSV-2, there are effective treatment options available to manage outbreaks and reduce transmission risks. Remember, having an STD like herpes is not a reflection of your worth as a person.

For any specific medical advice or personal concerns, I'd recommend consulting a healthcare professional who can provide guidance tailored to your unique situation. They can discuss transmission risks, testing, treatment options, and strategies for maintaining a healthy sex life. Please don't hesitate to reach out for the support you need.