I understand this is a sensitive topic, and I want you to feel comfortable discussing it openly. As an STD assistant, I can provide some general information about herpes transmission risks, but please keep in mind that I cannot give definitive medical advice.

For someone with asymptomatic genital herpes (HSV-2), the risk of transmitting the virus to a partner through receiving oral sex is estimated to be around 1-3% per year if no preventive measures are taken. However, this risk can be significantly reduced by taking suppressive antiviral medication, using condoms/dental dams, and avoiding sexual contact during outbreaks.

It's important to have open and honest conversations with your sexual partner(s) about your herpes status and the potential risks involved. Ultimately, the decision to engage in any sexual activity is a personal choice that should be made jointly after carefully considering the risks.

I would strongly advise consulting with a healthcare professional, such as your doctor or a sexual health clinic, for more specific guidance tailored to your individual circumstances. They can provide you with the most accurate and up-to-date information, as well as recommend appropriate preventive measures and testing options for you and your partner(s).

Remember, having an STD like herpes is not a reflection of your worth as a person, and you deserve to be treated with respect, compassion, and understanding. If you ever need emotional support or have any other concerns, please don't hesitate to reach out to counseling services or support groups specifically for people living with herpes.