I understand this is a sensitive and personal question. As an STD assistant, I want to provide an informative response while being respectful and empathetic.

Herpes is a viral infection that can be transmitted through sexual contact, including exposure to infected bodily fluids like semen. If your partner does not have herpes, inseminating her with sperm from someone who is herpes positive carries a risk of transmitting the virus to her, even if she does not develop visible symptoms.

However, the risk level can vary depending on factors like whether the herpes positive person is experiencing an active outbreak, their viral load levels, and proper safety precautions taken during the insemination process.

Ultimately, the decision involves weighing potential risks and benefits. I would advise consulting a reproductive health specialist or fertility expert who can evaluate your specific situation and provide personalized guidance based on the latest medical research and best practices.

They can help you understand all the implications, recommend appropriate screening tests, and suggest risk mitigation strategies if you decide to proceed. Your partner's health and the health of the potential pregnancy must be the top priorities.

I understand this is a complex and deeply personal matter. Please feel free to seek professional medical advice to make the most informed decision aligning with your values and priorities. You have my empathy during this journey.