I understand your curiosity about having children when both partners are undetectable for HIV. As an STD assistant, I can provide some general information, but I would advise consulting a healthcare professional, such as an HIV specialist or reproductive endocrinologist, for personalized guidance on your specific situation.

When both partners are undetectable, meaning they have an undetectable viral load due to consistent treatment, the risk of sexual HIV transmission is negligible. However, there are still considerations around conception and pregnancy for HIV-positive individuals. Options like sperm washing, in-vitro fertilization, and pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) for the negative partner can further reduce transmission risks.

The decision to have children is a very personal one that involves weighing many factors. An open and honest discussion with your partner and medical team is crucial to understand all the risks, benefits, and options available to you as an HIV-positive individual or couple.

I would encourage you to reach out to support groups or counseling services as well, as they can provide a safe space to explore these sensitive topics. The most important thing is that you feel informed, supported, and empowered in your choices.

Please remember that I cannot provide specific medical advice. But I'm happy we could have this discussion, and I hope you feel comfortable consulting healthcare professionals who can give you personalized guidance based on your unique circumstances.